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2013-10-29 11:14 AM
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Question for you bike savvy folks:

I have added intensity this year to my bike training. Strava segments seem to help me on this. I am trying to find a happy medium though. When running, I follow the old adage, "run often, mostly easy, sometimes hard". However, the bike is a bit different, so I'm just trying to get some ideas as I put together a bike program for the winter. How often do you ride hard vs recovery rides? 

If  you're going to keep riding 2-3 times a week, all of them. Well, as many of those as you're willing to push it, taking an easy one every few weeks for mental sanity. Just to enjoy being out on the bike. There isn't so much of a ratio of hard to easy, but an amount of hard that can be handled.

Biking doesn't have the impact loading like the run does, so things flip around. Schedule in the hard parts and then ride easier around that to get more in. Also take a look at the composition of the hard. As in how hard and for how long. Metrics like HR and power are good to help with that. Basically any riding harder than easy will help more than just going easy, but different levels of hard have different levels of effectiveness. As seen in Table 2 here. Note that Z6 & Z7 do little to nothing towards Z5 and under (which is aerobic development that we really want to target), though one would be a stronger cyclist in some sense by improving there. Thinking like full out sprints on those two.



2013-10-29 11:18 AM
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Originally posted by jobaxas i have horse tranquilisers when that starts xx

So what do you do with a tranqulized horse?   Heal quickly!! 

Ha, I love it! I hope you are doing better soon, Jo!

I must be doing better (at least mentally).  I ran a marathon this weekend.  I still have PT and did not get her blessing to run that far but she did know that I was contemplating and figures that she can fix my ouchies on Thursday at my next appointment. Sanity issues, she says she cannot fix and I just have to live with being a bit crazy to do 26.2 with no training.  I didn't die, so all is well.

Oops, just realize you were talking to the other Jo.  Dang, that gets confusing.  Disregard the above.  Wrong Jo.

I am quite sure that goes for either Jo

And I saw that MCM bidness ... I'd scold you if I weren't exactly the same way! Congrats. It's a great, great race and you put up some beautiful pics.

I'd like to say I would listen to scolding if you were to have scolded but you are right, we are the same type of crazy and honestly I probably would've rolled my eyes at your scolding like a rebellious teenager.   I won't say it is a great race.  Who runs out of beer 3 years in a row?   I finished an hour sooner in 2011 and they were out.  I heard they ran out last year also.  I don't need the medal but dang, momma likey some beer after a run!!   Probably crappy light diet beer anyway!

2013-10-29 11:21 AM
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2013-10-29 11:33 AM
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This.  I teach at a college.  My coworkers often talk about their husbands, families, when chatting with the students (we have a cohort program, we get to know the students very well).  I never have.  I am open with all my coworkers, Dean, others in the college, but haven't been with the students up to this year, I think due to worrying about a lack of respect or something.  But this year, if I am talking about my partner, I call her by name.  Enough is enough.  Like Adrienne, I had role models.  Now I will be one.

I had a coworker, who is Mormon, ask to speak with me recently.  She has treated me with nothing but respect and love.  I ran a trail race near her home, and she had K and I over for lunch.  She has her beliefs, but as she has said, "it is not up to her to judge me, that is between me and God".  So, on this occasion, she asked me a couple questions about coming out.  Then she told me that her son (one of 5 adult children) came out to the family over Thanksgiving weekend.  She was heartbroken, not because he is gay, but because he has known since he was a teenager (26 now), but has kept it hidden.  As a mother she felt terrible that he has struggled with it for this long.  She wanted to talk to me to find out how to best support him.  And then she thanked me for being open.  She had never personally known anyone gay before me.  And knowing me, she realized that we are all the same and that we simply love who we love. 

There is always going to be someone who hates me for who I am.  They are using up a lot of energy on someone they don't even know.  Energy that they could be using on other things.  Challenge hate for sure.  But don't waste your precious energy trying to change the haters.

I thought a lot about what you said here last night. It makes me so sad. I'm glad that you are being open with everyone now. I can't imagine not being able to talk about my husband.

2013-10-29 11:36 AM
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I just realized that on Sunday I surpassed my run mileage total from last year. 

Woohoo!!!

2013-10-29 11:40 AM
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Okay. Caught up now. But probably not for long.

This has been a really crappy month for me. Not as bad as for some of you. I don't have a broken bone that needs to be re-broken and re-set, for example

I had just started getting back into running, and I was knocked out with some kind of inner ear issue. No infection. But cripes. I spent Thursday and Friday popping motion sickness pills and pouring wax drops in my ear trying to clear out the blockage.

So of course, my body is stressed, so my BP starts rising. I was not going to go back into the doctor (I was seeing the campus nurse about my ear), so I chewed my blood pressure medicine to get more immediate effect. I took one in the morning, as usual, then at about 1:00, chomped one down. My BP was still high, but not ridiculous.

I seriously considered snorting the stupid medicine.

Anyway. We managed to evacuate some of the wax (it literally rolled out of my ear. Gross), but I'm still feeling some pressure and a little pain. It's not infected, however. So who knows.

At least I am back to my more normal snarky self. I'm off the motion sickness medicine. My blood pressure is back to normal. And I can sit here at the computer without feeling that I'm going to lose my cookies.

Love you all. Sorry I've been so out of it.

oh do you recall my spell of labyrinthitis - antihistamines helped and te doc did some head realignment blood pressure couldnt get mine above 94 post op! doc said it might feel cr*ppy but your heart thanks you

Very interesting. I just researched labrinthitis, and it does sound like that's what it could be. Fall is my worst seasonal allergy time. Perhaps that triggered it?



2013-10-29 11:45 AM
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Okay. I tried to run a little last night -- barely made it a block because of my ear. I walked the route instead. Sadly, it didn't take me that much longer. (Mental note: Run faster).

For this week, I am thinking of just walking the distances that I would run. If I take the dog, he keeps me at about a 15min mile pace. I know it's not the same as running, but do you think it will help me retain some fitness?

2013-10-29 11:52 AM
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Okay. I tried to run a little last night -- barely made it a block because of my ear. I walked the route instead. Sadly, it didn't take me that much longer. (Mental note: Run faster).

For this week, I am thinking of just walking the distances that I would run. If I take the dog, he keeps me at about a 15min mile pace. I know it's not the same as running, but do you think it will help me retain some fitness?

Yes, keep walking. I did not do any cross training and it sort of scared me.  I definitely could feel my heart working over time.  I think when we are injured or sick that we forget that the heart is the most important muscle to stay in shape.   I highly recommend doing what I did not, and adding some sort of cardio (bike on a trainer or elipticalwould probably be best) to get the HR up.  If it is only a week, just walk it.  If it goes longer than a week, get your HR up a few times a week.  

2013-10-29 11:54 AM
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Hi Manatees,

Looks like I missed something while I was away, and while I'm glad I missed the drama, I'm equally glad it was addressed not only in the forum itself, but also in here.  I think I live in a slightly rose-coloured world in that I truly believe that whomever you (the collective you, not anyone in particular) fall in love with - I'm glad you found someone to love.  It may be my own small protest, but I'm not going to get US Citizenship when I'm eligible because I don't want to be a citizen of a country that doesn't give equal rights to all of its people when it comes to marriage.  Why it's anyone else's business if two consenting adults want to get married and share their love, I don't know - and I don't understand why it's okay to deny others that right.  

Again, my own personal belief, but it's a strong one.  

2013-10-29 12:04 PM
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I just realized that on Sunday I surpassed my run mileage total from last year. 

WHEEEEEEEE!!!    Way to go!!  :D 

2013-10-29 12:08 PM
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Ok, I haven't been able to check in so what the heck did I miss? I'm gonna have to go back and re-read everything


2013-10-29 12:09 PM
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Originally posted by KansasMom

Originally posted by bcraht

This.  I teach at a college.  My coworkers often talk about their husbands, families, when chatting with the students (we have a cohort program, we get to know the students very well).  I never have.  I am open with all my coworkers, Dean, others in the college, but haven't been with the students up to this year, I think due to worrying about a lack of respect or something.  But this year, if I am talking about my partner, I call her by name.  Enough is enough.  Like Adrienne, I had role models.  Now I will be one.

I had a coworker, who is Mormon, ask to speak with me recently.  She has treated me with nothing but respect and love.  I ran a trail race near her home, and she had K and I over for lunch.  She has her beliefs, but as she has said, "it is not up to her to judge me, that is between me and God".  So, on this occasion, she asked me a couple questions about coming out.  Then she told me that her son (one of 5 adult children) came out to the family over Thanksgiving weekend.  She was heartbroken, not because he is gay, but because he has known since he was a teenager (26 now), but has kept it hidden.  As a mother she felt terrible that he has struggled with it for this long.  She wanted to talk to me to find out how to best support him.  And then she thanked me for being open.  She had never personally known anyone gay before me.  And knowing me, she realized that we are all the same and that we simply love who we love. 

There is always going to be someone who hates me for who I am.  They are using up a lot of energy on someone they don't even know.  Energy that they could be using on other things.  Challenge hate for sure.  But don't waste your precious energy trying to change the haters.

I thought a lot about what you said here last night. It makes me so sad. I'm glad that you are being open with everyone now. I can't imagine not being able to talk about my husband.

I'm really glad you said this, because it's honestly not something that had ever crossed my mind before reading what you wrote as it's not something I've ever had to imagine - it really hit home.  At the same time, it makes me happy that there are people willing and wanting to be role models to help make a positive change. Thank you for making me think about things from a different perspective.  

2013-10-29 12:31 PM
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Originally posted by blueyedbikergirl

Originally posted by KansasMom

Originally posted by bcraht

This.  I teach at a college.  My coworkers often talk about their husbands, families, when chatting with the students (we have a cohort program, we get to know the students very well).  I never have.  I am open with all my coworkers, Dean, others in the college, but haven't been with the students up to this year, I think due to worrying about a lack of respect or something.  But this year, if I am talking about my partner, I call her by name.  Enough is enough.  Like Adrienne, I had role models.  Now I will be one.

I had a coworker, who is Mormon, ask to speak with me recently.  She has treated me with nothing but respect and love.  I ran a trail race near her home, and she had K and I over for lunch.  She has her beliefs, but as she has said, "it is not up to her to judge me, that is between me and God".  So, on this occasion, she asked me a couple questions about coming out.  Then she told me that her son (one of 5 adult children) came out to the family over Thanksgiving weekend.  She was heartbroken, not because he is gay, but because he has known since he was a teenager (26 now), but has kept it hidden.  As a mother she felt terrible that he has struggled with it for this long.  She wanted to talk to me to find out how to best support him.  And then she thanked me for being open.  She had never personally known anyone gay before me.  And knowing me, she realized that we are all the same and that we simply love who we love. 

There is always going to be someone who hates me for who I am.  They are using up a lot of energy on someone they don't even know.  Energy that they could be using on other things.  Challenge hate for sure.  But don't waste your precious energy trying to change the haters.

I thought a lot about what you said here last night. It makes me so sad. I'm glad that you are being open with everyone now. I can't imagine not being able to talk about my husband.

I'm really glad you said this, because it's honestly not something that had ever crossed my mind before reading what you wrote as it's not something I've ever had to imagine - it really hit home.  At the same time, it makes me happy that there are people willing and wanting to be role models to help make a positive change. Thank you for making me think about things from a different perspective.  

Yeah. I consider myself to be a reasonably confident individual but I get major anxiety sometimes when the subject comes up, and I am pretty "out." I am very strategic in the words I use and when I decide to say "we" because sometimes I just don't want some stranger judging me before they even know me. Also, if we are in a more conservative area (say, all of Eastern WA for example) we don't hold hands. People split the check for us without asking, all those little things. It sucks. 

And then sometimes when we have the conversation, it stems into having to define my specific beliefs on the institution of marriage, if I want to have kids, and weird intimate questions. And I guess I don't mind the questions and appreciate that people are trying to learn a little, and am a pretty open individual, but you don't just walk up to a straight couple and ask them their beliefs on the institution of marriage and what their preferences are in the bedroom ...

 

But all this aside, the bigger issue which Ann-Maria hit on, was perspective. It is very helpful if we take a moment to look at things from others POV. 

2013-10-29 12:38 PM
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Originally posted by blueyedbikergirl

Originally posted by KansasMom

Originally posted by bcraht

This.  I teach at a college.  My coworkers often talk about their husbands, families, when chatting with the students (we have a cohort program, we get to know the students very well).  I never have.  I am open with all my coworkers, Dean, others in the college, but haven't been with the students up to this year, I think due to worrying about a lack of respect or something.  But this year, if I am talking about my partner, I call her by name.  Enough is enough.  Like Adrienne, I had role models.  Now I will be one.

I had a coworker, who is Mormon, ask to speak with me recently.  She has treated me with nothing but respect and love.  I ran a trail race near her home, and she had K and I over for lunch.  She has her beliefs, but as she has said, "it is not up to her to judge me, that is between me and God".  So, on this occasion, she asked me a couple questions about coming out.  Then she told me that her son (one of 5 adult children) came out to the family over Thanksgiving weekend.  She was heartbroken, not because he is gay, but because he has known since he was a teenager (26 now), but has kept it hidden.  As a mother she felt terrible that he has struggled with it for this long.  She wanted to talk to me to find out how to best support him.  And then she thanked me for being open.  She had never personally known anyone gay before me.  And knowing me, she realized that we are all the same and that we simply love who we love. 

There is always going to be someone who hates me for who I am.  They are using up a lot of energy on someone they don't even know.  Energy that they could be using on other things.  Challenge hate for sure.  But don't waste your precious energy trying to change the haters.

I thought a lot about what you said here last night. It makes me so sad. I'm glad that you are being open with everyone now. I can't imagine not being able to talk about my husband.

I'm really glad you said this, because it's honestly not something that had ever crossed my mind before reading what you wrote as it's not something I've ever had to imagine - it really hit home.  At the same time, it makes me happy that there are people willing and wanting to be role models to help make a positive change. Thank you for making me think about things from a different perspective.  

Yeah. I consider myself to be a reasonably confident individual but I get major anxiety sometimes when the subject comes up, and I am pretty "out." I am very strategic in the words I use and when I decide to say "we" because sometimes I just don't want some stranger judging me before they even know me. Also, if we are in a more conservative area (say, all of Eastern WA for example) we don't hold hands. People split the check for us without asking, all those little things. It sucks. 

And then sometimes when we have the conversation, it stems into having to define my specific beliefs on the institution of marriage, if I want to have kids, and weird intimate questions. And I guess I don't mind the questions and appreciate that people are trying to learn a little, and am a pretty open individual, but you don't just walk up to a straight couple and ask them their beliefs on the institution of marriage and what their preferences are in the bedroom ...

 

But all this aside, the bigger issue which Ann-Maria hit on, was perspective. It is very helpful if we take a moment to look at things from others POV. 

Adrienne, this is what I meant earlier when I told you that I am still learning. What an eye opener to look at things through someone else's eyes, and yet it is something we (the collective we) don't often do. 

2013-10-29 12:49 PM
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Okay. I tried to run a little last night -- barely made it a block because of my ear. I walked the route instead. Sadly, it didn't take me that much longer. (Mental note: Run faster).

For this week, I am thinking of just walking the distances that I would run. If I take the dog, he keeps me at about a 15min mile pace. I know it's not the same as running, but do you think it will help me retain some fitness?

When I had surgery years ago they had me walk and walk and then walk some more.  It's not the same as running at all but it seems that it wouldn't hurt any.  If nothing else, it helps mentally.

2013-10-29 1:03 PM
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Originally posted by Asalzwed

Originally posted by blueyedbikergirl

Originally posted by KansasMom

Originally posted by bcraht

This.  I teach at a college.  My coworkers often talk about their husbands, families, when chatting with the students (we have a cohort program, we get to know the students very well).  I never have.  I am open with all my coworkers, Dean, others in the college, but haven't been with the students up to this year, I think due to worrying about a lack of respect or something.  But this year, if I am talking about my partner, I call her by name.  Enough is enough.  Like Adrienne, I had role models.  Now I will be one.

I had a coworker, who is Mormon, ask to speak with me recently.  She has treated me with nothing but respect and love.  I ran a trail race near her home, and she had K and I over for lunch.  She has her beliefs, but as she has said, "it is not up to her to judge me, that is between me and God".  So, on this occasion, she asked me a couple questions about coming out.  Then she told me that her son (one of 5 adult children) came out to the family over Thanksgiving weekend.  She was heartbroken, not because he is gay, but because he has known since he was a teenager (26 now), but has kept it hidden.  As a mother she felt terrible that he has struggled with it for this long.  She wanted to talk to me to find out how to best support him.  And then she thanked me for being open.  She had never personally known anyone gay before me.  And knowing me, she realized that we are all the same and that we simply love who we love. 

There is always going to be someone who hates me for who I am.  They are using up a lot of energy on someone they don't even know.  Energy that they could be using on other things.  Challenge hate for sure.  But don't waste your precious energy trying to change the haters.

I thought a lot about what you said here last night. It makes me so sad. I'm glad that you are being open with everyone now. I can't imagine not being able to talk about my husband.

I'm really glad you said this, because it's honestly not something that had ever crossed my mind before reading what you wrote as it's not something I've ever had to imagine - it really hit home.  At the same time, it makes me happy that there are people willing and wanting to be role models to help make a positive change. Thank you for making me think about things from a different perspective.  

Yeah. I consider myself to be a reasonably confident individual but I get major anxiety sometimes when the subject comes up, and I am pretty "out." I am very strategic in the words I use and when I decide to say "we" because sometimes I just don't want some stranger judging me before they even know me. Also, if we are in a more conservative area (say, all of Eastern WA for example) we don't hold hands. People split the check for us without asking, all those little things. It sucks. 

And then sometimes when we have the conversation, it stems into having to define my specific beliefs on the institution of marriage, if I want to have kids, and weird intimate questions. And I guess I don't mind the questions and appreciate that people are trying to learn a little, and am a pretty open individual, but you don't just walk up to a straight couple and ask them their beliefs on the institution of marriage and what their preferences are in the bedroom ...

 

But all this aside, the bigger issue which Ann-Maria hit on, was perspective. It is very helpful if we take a moment to look at things from others POV. 

Adrienne, this is what I meant earlier when I told you that I am still learning. What an eye opener to look at things through someone else's eyes, and yet it is something we (the collective we) don't often do. 

I missed all the discussion and I usually keep quiet on anything political or religious, but this is neither and anyone who tries to make it political or religious debate if full of crap in my mind. I believe everyone has the right to free speech except when it takes away someone else's rights or freedoms.  I have a hard time being quiet but I usually end up saying something offensive that I don't realize is offensive. So please understand this is not meant to offend anyone and I believe that love between consenting adults is beautiful and rare.  People think that love is common.  It is not.  Marriage is common.  I think that people who judge someone else's love have never been in love or think love is something it is not.  I think society and media tells us how love should be.  Look at every fairy tale/disney movie.  It is okay for the poor girl to get the prince once someone changes her into a princess or the mermaid who changes into a human or the beast who turns into a prince.  We are brought up with love happening between people who are the same race, culture, religion, etc..  People fear the unknown.   I love that some of the current media is integrating same sex couples into their programs.  Ellen has broken through many barriers, starting with her controversial kissing a girl years ago on her sitcom.   I think fear is a huge factor with most people.  What is the great quote "You have nothing to fear but fear itself".  Fear can tear a country apart.  I love LOVE!!   I, honestly, wish more people knew what love is, instead of judging someone's love based on what they think love should be. 



2013-10-29 1:39 PM
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Originally posted by blueyedbikergirl

Originally posted by KansasMom

Originally posted by bcraht

This.  I teach at a college.  My coworkers often talk about their husbands, families, when chatting with the students (we have a cohort program, we get to know the students very well).  I never have.  I am open with all my coworkers, Dean, others in the college, but haven't been with the students up to this year, I think due to worrying about a lack of respect or something.  But this year, if I am talking about my partner, I call her by name.  Enough is enough.  Like Adrienne, I had role models.  Now I will be one.

I had a coworker, who is Mormon, ask to speak with me recently.  She has treated me with nothing but respect and love.  I ran a trail race near her home, and she had K and I over for lunch.  She has her beliefs, but as she has said, "it is not up to her to judge me, that is between me and God".  So, on this occasion, she asked me a couple questions about coming out.  Then she told me that her son (one of 5 adult children) came out to the family over Thanksgiving weekend.  She was heartbroken, not because he is gay, but because he has known since he was a teenager (26 now), but has kept it hidden.  As a mother she felt terrible that he has struggled with it for this long.  She wanted to talk to me to find out how to best support him.  And then she thanked me for being open.  She had never personally known anyone gay before me.  And knowing me, she realized that we are all the same and that we simply love who we love. 

There is always going to be someone who hates me for who I am.  They are using up a lot of energy on someone they don't even know.  Energy that they could be using on other things.  Challenge hate for sure.  But don't waste your precious energy trying to change the haters.

I thought a lot about what you said here last night. It makes me so sad. I'm glad that you are being open with everyone now. I can't imagine not being able to talk about my husband.

I'm really glad you said this, because it's honestly not something that had ever crossed my mind before reading what you wrote as it's not something I've ever had to imagine - it really hit home.  At the same time, it makes me happy that there are people willing and wanting to be role models to help make a positive change. Thank you for making me think about things from a different perspective.  

This is all an interesting discuss point for me.  I am typically very conservative….but I am finding myself more and more moderate here.  There was a time when I would just hide behind the straight Christian belief…..but now I am thinking more about this.  My friend's son came out last year (he goes to HS with my daughter and they are great friends) she is accepting it----though not openly.  Her husband refuses to acknowledge the statement.  The reality is there are PEOPLE behind the labels we stick on ourselves….we are not just straight/ gay…..Christian/ Muslim/ Jewish or of any particular race.  Until we start respecting people for who they are there will never be a real dialogue of any real meaning.

2013-10-29 1:50 PM
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Jogo, I haven't read the whole thing, but your race report in your logs looks awesome. Congrats!!!!!

2013-10-29 5:23 PM
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Hmmm,

    Left yesterday afternoon to take dad down to the VA for more surgery.  Outpatient it was.    We got back this early afternoon.    He has his pain killers so he resting.   I am beat but these days I have to eat carefully, so I cooked a steak, boiled some eggs, cooked green beans, and scalloped some potatoes.     Had a Corona whilst eating.    Get on line and check this place.  

 

I didn't mean to create such a maelstrom.

Yikes.    The power of words.

 

Gonna have another beer.

 

2013-10-29 5:45 PM
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Subject: RE: Mucho Mental Manatee Mentors--CLOSED (Pop Tarts?)

Originally posted by MadMathemagician

Hmmm,

    Left yesterday afternoon to take dad down to the VA for more surgery.  Outpatient it was.    We got back this early afternoon.    He has his pain killers so he resting.   I am beat but these days I have to eat carefully, so I cooked a steak, boiled some eggs, cooked green beans, and scalloped some potatoes.     Had a Corona whilst eating.    Get on line and check this place.  

 

I didn't mean to create such a maelstrom.

Yikes.    The power of words.

 

Gonna have another beer.

 

Actually, it has been a healthy discussion and no nastiness -unlike the previously mentioned thread.  It's been a good topic.

Hope your father is doing okay!

2013-10-29 7:23 PM
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Subject: RE: Mucho Mental Manatee Mentors--CLOSED (Pop Tarts?)
Originally posted by amd723

Originally posted by bcraht

I just realized that on Sunday I surpassed my run mileage total from last year. 

Congratulations, especially since you were not able to run for a while! Your post made me take a look at my totals and I'm up about 150 miles on my run total. Of course, last year I was unable to run for about 1.5 months, so my gain is not that impressive
of course your gain is impressive, any gain is! Don't down play your achievements celebrate them it will encourage you to strive for more.


2013-10-29 7:28 PM
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Subject: RE: Mucho Mental Manatee Mentors--CLOSED (Pop Tarts?)
Originally posted by jogo

Originally posted by cdban66

Originally posted by jogo

Originally posted by jobaxas i have horse tranquilisers when that starts xx

So what do you do with a tranqulized horse?   Heal quickly!! 

Ha, I love it! I hope you are doing better soon, Jo!

I must be doing better (at least mentally).  I ran a marathon this weekend.  I still have PT and did not get her blessing to run that far but she did know that I was contemplating and figures that she can fix my ouchies on Thursday at my next appointment. Sanity issues, she says she cannot fix and I just have to live with being a bit crazy to do 26.2 with no training.  I didn't die, so all is well.

Oops, just realize you were talking to the other Jo.  Dang, that gets confusing.  Disregard the above.  Wrong Jo.


hey Jo it's great that you ran the marathon. Did that just pop up out of no where?
2013-10-29 7:45 PM
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Subject: RE: Mucho Mental Manatee Mentors--CLOSED (Pop Tarts?)
I had a bit of a swimming breakthrough today! YAY!

Who knew that a slight change in hand entry angle could make so much difference. My shoulders are sore again today but it isn't that stabbing can't lift my hands above my head pain, it is you have used different muscles than before and the are achey but feel great sore.

After 10 months of working on my stroke it finally feels like it is all coming together, God bless the swim Smooth boys.

Watch out speed here I come
2013-10-29 7:57 PM
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Subject: RE: Mucho Mental Manatee Mentors--CLOSED (Pop Tarts?)
In light of recent discussions I am proud to say that two of my dearest friends Jacqui and Tess are getting married in December. I cannot wait for their wedding I love those girls.

In other news I feel nothing - the horse tranquilisers are awesome!
2013-10-29 11:36 PM
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Subject: RE: Mucho Mental Manatee Mentors--CLOSED (Pop Tarts?)

Originally posted by StaceyK I had a bit of a swimming breakthrough today! YAY! Who knew that a slight change in hand entry angle could make so much difference. My shoulders are sore again today but it isn't that stabbing can't lift my hands above my head pain, it is you have used different muscles than before and the are achey but feel great sore. After 10 months of working on my stroke it finally feels like it is all coming together, God bless the swim Smooth boys. Watch out speed here I come

Nice going! So much fun when something comes together.

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