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Need ideas: Small gift for super nice neighbor
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Other gift card (Restaurant)1 Votes - [2.7%]
Other gift card (Target, Best Buy, Home Depot)2 Votes - [5.41%]
Homemade baked goods1 Votes - [2.7%]
Beer20 Votes - [54.05%]
put something on the grill and invite him and his family over3 Votes - [8.11%]
100 pound of dog food1 Votes - [2.7%]
Restaurant Gift Card3 Votes - [8.11%]
Mow his yard1 Votes - [2.7%]
liberator2 Votes - [5.41%]
sunbathe in your yard when he is enjoying a beer on his porch2 Votes - [5.41%]
A Keg of Beer1 Votes - [2.7%]

2010-06-02 7:38 AM
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Beer and a gift card from Lowes.  Handy guys can always find something nice there.  The only exception would be if he has a hobby, ie RC cars or some sports team he likes.  If that is the case a gift card from a related store large enough to be useful would rock.


2010-06-02 1:24 PM
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lisac957 - 2010-06-01 9:55 AM My next door neighbor works at a heating/cooling place, so when my air conditioner wasn't blowing cold air I caught him in the yard yesterday and asked how expensive that usually is to fix. In the back of my mind I was hoping he would take a look at it on the side, and he did! He immediately went to his work truck, pulled out tools and diagnostic equipment and FIXED MY A/C! Turns out something had jammed the motor so he cleaned it out, oiled it up and re-filled the freon. All while guests to his BBQ were arriving... what a nice guy! He also said if the motor was on the fritz it would peter out in a few days, but he would give me the exact part/model so I could buy it and he would install it for me ($50 as opposed to the $300 his company would charge).

So.... obviously I want to get him a little 'thank you' something.

My first thought was a Starbucks gift card. I have no idea if he likes coffee or not (but can't you always just grab a cookie or something even if you don't like coffee?). My Dad suggested homemade cookies. Which I can do, but I have no idea if he has allergies (like me!) or what not. Plus some people are leery about homemade goods from strangers. My final thought was a case of beer. That is one of the only things I know about him is that he likes to drink beer on his back porch, cause I see him doing it all the time. But that seems a little insincere to me, plus I'd have to stalk him to see what kind of beer he drinks - I never paid attention previously.

Other things I know about him and his wife (not much, they are fairly 'new' neighbors): They have a dog and they foster german shephards. They do lots of yard work and have some vegetables growing on their back deck. They like to drink beer. They are in their early 30s with no kiddos.

I'm thinking in the $20-$40 range.

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Two thoughts  $50 gift card maybe.

Second thought because I own a Heating & Air Conditioning company.

Insist on paying the correct amount to the guys employer.  He put the guy in the truck, paid
for the Freon, tools  etc.  This really pisses me off because you are stealing from a company struggling to stay afloat.  He will get caught doing sidework out of the owners truck, with the owners materials and he will be fired from his job.   Maybe then you can have him over to dinner.

Just my thoughts.

Kevin



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2010-06-03 8:52 AM
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Hello

I guess I kind of cut this topic off at the knees.

Good.

 

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2010-06-03 10:05 AM
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Thanks to everyone for the replies, even the ones suggesting criminal activity! LOL!
I can always count on COJ...
 
2010-06-03 10:12 AM
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b2673ad - 2010-06-02 1:24 PM

lisac957 - 2010-06-01 9:55 AM My next door neighbor works at a heating/cooling place, so when my air conditioner wasn't blowing cold air I caught him in the yard yesterday and asked how expensive that usually is to fix. In the back of my mind I was hoping he would take a look at it on the side, and he did! He immediately went to his work truck, pulled out tools and diagnostic equipment and FIXED MY A/C! Turns out something had jammed the motor so he cleaned it out, oiled it up and re-filled the freon. All while guests to his BBQ were arriving... what a nice guy! He also said if the motor was on the fritz it would peter out in a few days, but he would give me the exact part/model so I could buy it and he would install it for me ($50 as opposed to the $300 his company would charge).

So.... obviously I want to get him a little 'thank you' something.

My first thought was a Starbucks gift card. I have no idea if he likes coffee or not (but can't you always just grab a cookie or something even if you don't like coffee?). My Dad suggested homemade cookies. Which I can do, but I have no idea if he has allergies (like me!) or what not. Plus some people are leery about homemade goods from strangers. My final thought was a case of beer. That is one of the only things I know about him is that he likes to drink beer on his back porch, cause I see him doing it all the time. But that seems a little insincere to me, plus I'd have to stalk him to see what kind of beer he drinks - I never paid attention previously.

Other things I know about him and his wife (not much, they are fairly 'new' neighbors): They have a dog and they foster german shephards. They do lots of yard work and have some vegetables growing on their back deck. They like to drink beer. They are in their early 30s with no kiddos.

I'm thinking in the $20-$40 range.

Votes or other ideas?
 
 



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Two thoughts  $50 gift card maybe.

Second thought because I own a Heating & Air Conditioning company.

Insist on paying the correct amount to the guys employer.  He put the guy in the truck, paid
for the Freon, tools  etc.  This really pisses me off because you are stealing from a company struggling to stay afloat.  He will get caught doing sidework out of the owners truck, with the owners materials and he will be fired from his job.   Maybe then you can have him over to dinner.

Just my thoughts.

Kevin



OK I have to ask ... you've NEVER done a favor for a friend, as an HVAC guy, who was having a minor issue with their heating or cooling? I mean, it's not like the guy went to the shop, picked up a new $5,000 cooler and installed it on company time. It was a jammed motor and a few bucks in freon.
2010-06-03 10:28 AM
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hmm.... I kinda thought the guy was doing a little promotion... because I would imagine that if something ever really big went down, Lisa would go to his company...

nonetheless Lisa, this is a great opportunity to get to know your neighbors.  Sounds like they are great people. 



2010-06-03 10:54 AM
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akustix - 2010-06-02 11:28 AM

hmm.... I kinda thought the guy was doing a little promotion... because I would imagine that if something ever really big went down, Lisa would go to his company...

nonetheless Lisa, this is a great opportunity to get to know your neighbors.  Sounds like they are great people. 



x2 on both thoughts.  

When Lisa's airhandler craps out, I'm fairly confident in her choice of supplier for the replacement.

If this guy is trolling the neighborhood looking for side jobs, that's one thing.   If he's helping a neighbor once or twice, it's a different story.    

Lisa, this is a great chance for you to meet his wife and ask her what he's into.  You get to know your neighbor a little better, AND you get to buy him a very targeted gift.
2010-06-03 11:10 AM
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akustix - 2010-06-03 10:28 AM

hmm.... I kinda thought the guy was doing a little promotion... because I would imagine that if something ever really big went down, Lisa would go to his company...

nonetheless Lisa, this is a great opportunity to get to know your neighbors.  Sounds like they are great people. 


I've got to agree with the Preach here.  We have a guy in our neighborhood that owns an electrical contracting company.  I was having some issues with a light switch.  I asked him to come over and take a peek.  He did, found a small error in the original wiring and fixed it.  I offered to pay and he wouldn't hear of it - had a couple of beers with me on the front porch instead.  I felt bad and offered again.  He told me that when I was ready to finish our basement, to give him a call instead of Company B, and we'd call it even.  I did that this winter.  I also gave his company name to three other people that needed to do some electrical installation.  If you figure out the promotional cost (a couple of outlets, some wire nuts and about 10' of 14 - 2 wire) compared to whatr he made off of those jobs this winter (he jokes about hiring me as a sales guy), I think it turned out pretty well for him. 
Maybe it's just me.  Satisfied customers and word of mouth are your best sales vehicle.
2010-06-03 11:31 AM
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You all must be workers for someone else.  As long as its not your company dine its fine to steal from the owner of the comapny.  Go ask you neighbor the doctor to come over to your house to give you a check-up or maybe a lawyer neighbor to file a new will all for free except a $50 dollar Lowe's card.

Check the price of Freon (R-22 or R410-A), check the price of liability insurance, Workman's comp insurance, gas, HVAC specific tools.

Side job Bob's working out of the company truck will get caught and loose their jobs.
 

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2010-06-03 11:38 AM
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b2673ad - 2010-06-03 11:31 AM

You all must be workers for someone else.  As long as its not your company dine its fine to steal from the owner of the comapny.  Go ask you neighbor the doctor to come over to your house to give you a check-up or maybe a lawyer neighbor to file a new will all for free except a $50 dollar Lowe's card.

Check the price of Freon (R-22 or R410-A), check the price of liability insurance, Workman's comp insurance, gas, HVAC specific tools.

Side job Bob's working out of the company truck will get caught and loose their jobs.
 

Kevin



My lawyer friend who's a partner at his firm did my quitclaim deed for free.
My doctor friend who owns his own practice prescribed a Z-pack for me when I was sick.
My friend's contractor friend is going to do some drywall on the side for me, and he owns the company.

None asked for payment. I bought drinks and dinner.

Your hardline stance will cost you customers in the future, in my opine. Doing nice things for people helps a business, it doesn't hurt it. My father owned about 10 companies, two for which I worked in college, and I can tell you some of his best PAYING customers (mostly for his roofing company) started out as friend for whom he did small favors.
2010-06-03 11:59 AM
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mr2tony - 2010-06-03 11:38 AM
b2673ad - 2010-06-03 11:31 AM

You all must be workers for someone else.  As long as its not your company dine its fine to steal from the owner of the comapny.  Go ask you neighbor the doctor to come over to your house to give you a check-up or maybe a lawyer neighbor to file a new will all for free except a $50 dollar Lowe's card.

Check the price of Freon (R-22 or R410-A), check the price of liability insurance, Workman's comp insurance, gas, HVAC specific tools.

Side job Bob's working out of the company truck will get caught and loose their jobs.
 

Kevin

My lawyer friend who's a partner at his firm did my quitclaim deed for free. My doctor friend who owns his own practice prescribed a Z-pack for me when I was sick. My friend's contractor friend is going to do some drywall on the side for me, and he owns the company. None asked for payment. I bought drinks and dinner. Your hardline stance will cost you customers in the future, in my opine. Doing nice things for people helps a business, it doesn't hurt it. My father owned about 10 companies, two for which I worked in college, and I can tell you some of his best PAYING customers (mostly for his roofing company) started out as friend for whom he did small favors.


Totally agree. And let me emphasize he simply cleaned debris out of the motor, re-set the safety, and flipped the breaker box before it started working just fine again. Hardly criminal activity if you ask me.

PS my parents also owned a business my whole life.
 
 


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b2673ad - 2010-06-03 12:31 PM

You all must be workers for someone else.  As long as its not your company dine its fine to steal from the owner of the comapny.  Go ask you neighbor the doctor to come over to your house to give you a check-up or maybe a lawyer neighbor to file a new will all for free except a $50 dollar Lowe's card.

Check the price of Freon (R-22 or R410-A), check the price of liability insurance, Workman's comp insurance, gas, HVAC specific tools.

Side job Bob's working out of the company truck will get caught and loose their jobs.
 

Kevin

Bet you're fun to work for.

2010-06-03 12:10 PM
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mr2tony - 2010-06-03 11:38 AMMy lawyer friend who's a partner at his firm did my quitclaim deed for free. My doctor friend who owns his own practice prescribed a Z-pack for me when I was sick. My friend's contractor friend is going to do some drywall on the side for me, and he owns the company. None asked for payment. I bought drinks and dinner. Your hardline stance will cost you customers in the future, in my opine. Doing nice things for people helps a business, it doesn't hurt it. My father owned about 10 companies, two for which I worked in college, and I can tell you some of his best PAYING customers (mostly for his roofing company) started out as friend for whom he did small favors.


I would charge you for a prescription.  Probably overbill you too.
2010-06-03 12:38 PM
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I think the original intent of this post was to do something nice for someone who went out of their way to do something nice for a neighbor.   Maybe this guy has a real DB of a boss but maybe.....just maybe...he was doing something nice for a neighbor.  Who knows, maybe Lisa will even use his company or even refer all of her friends to this company in the future.  Who knows, who cares.  at the end of the day, it appears she was just trying to show some appreciation.  *clap for caring*.   WTFE on the criminal intent!
2010-06-03 12:40 PM
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Well, since this thread has completely morphed into the HVAC guys-working-on-the-side thread, I'll chime in. I supervise licensed HVAC guys as part of my job. They're all salaried now, but they all came from working out in the field billing customers. Every one of them said they worked on the side in plain sight of the owners. They're the money-makers for the business, so as long as they're not blatantly stealing existing customers or property, they get cut some slack. In this case, a little bit of refrigerant is a drop in the bucket compared to the money they bring in.

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DerekL - 2010-06-03 12:10 PM

mr2tony - 2010-06-03 11:38 AMMy lawyer friend who's a partner at his firm did my quitclaim deed for free. My doctor friend who owns his own practice prescribed a Z-pack for me when I was sick. My friend's contractor friend is going to do some drywall on the side for me, and he owns the company. None asked for payment. I bought drinks and dinner. Your hardline stance will cost you customers in the future, in my opine. Doing nice things for people helps a business, it doesn't hurt it. My father owned about 10 companies, two for which I worked in college, and I can tell you some of his best PAYING customers (mostly for his roofing company) started out as friend for whom he did small favors.


I would charge you for a prescription.  Probably overbill you too.


It's OK. I have good insurance.


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This thread has pushed me over the edge--changed my sig line.

2010-06-03 3:58 PM
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I think the idea of beer and bbq or something , invite them over sounded good
Otherwise, get some interesting beers, a selection of non normal lagers (although AFAIK, ale / bitter isn't particularly big over in the states?)  or anything. If you go into a shop and see lots of single bottles that look interesting , a selection of them

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mr2tony - 2010-06-03 11:38 AM

b2673ad - 2010-06-03 11:31 AM

You all must be workers for someone else.  As long as its not your company dine its fine to steal from the owner of the comapny.  Go ask you neighbor the doctor to come over to your house to give you a check-up or maybe a lawyer neighbor to file a new will all for free except a $50 dollar Lowe's card.

Check the price of Freon (R-22 or R410-A), check the price of liability insurance, Workman's comp insurance, gas, HVAC specific tools.

Side job Bob's working out of the company truck will get caught and loose their jobs.
 

Kevin



My lawyer friend who's a partner at his firm did my quitclaim deed for free.
My doctor friend who owns his own practice prescribed a Z-pack for me when I was sick.
My friend's contractor friend is going to do some drywall on the side for me, and he owns the company.

None asked for payment. I bought drinks and dinner.

Your hardline stance will cost you customers in the future, in my opine. Doing nice things for people helps a business, it doesn't hurt it. My father owned about 10 companies, two for which I worked in college, and I can tell you some of his best PAYING customers (mostly for his roofing company) started out as friend for whom he did small favors.


Hello

I agree with Tony, your stance will cost you more business then money you save by being a hard a$$. Lisa's neighbor wasn't out trolling for side work. He did something nice for a neighbor and now more then likely she will go to his company for future paying work. Only a short sighted employer would fire him for what he did, which was engaging in the most effective form of advertising.

An example from my life that illustrates my point nicely, Wednesday afternoon I went to a new tri club buddy who is a mechanic. I needed some holes tapped so I could install a hitch and I needed it ASAP because we were leaving first thing Thursday morning for vacation. I was willing to pay. In front of his boss, he offered to bring the tap over and do it at my house after work in exchange for me working on his bike. Now I will take my car to him when I need to have repairs done, and I'll pay. Had his boss taken a hard line stance (such as yours) I would never have considered going back there for work.

BTW, my father is an electrician and owns his own business. I worked for him for over 10 years. Some how I managed to realize that being nice to people and doing favors gets you business.

Oh, and:
My PT friend checked out my ankle and got me a referral to a top notch sports med orthopedic surgeon.
My doctor friend has diagnosed me over the phone and called in a script for me when I was on vacation and needed it ASAP.
Neither has asked for payment.

Dave



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2010-06-08 12:53 PM
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I'm a lawyer and have done numerous "odd" jobs for friends and family gratis. I would never charge them for small jobs, and have received numerous "large" referrals from doing "small" work for free. Also, as a business owner I would terminate any employee that refused to help a neighbor. What this guy did just seems like a sign of common courtesy that I look for in employees.
2010-06-08 12:58 PM
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Oh my thread popped back up!

To update everyone... I left a case of beer on his porch with a hand-written thank you note on Friday (no one was home at the time). Saw him in the backyard later, asked if he got my gift. He said he was so touched that I would get him something... said even his friends had never been so thoughtful.

And neither of us got arrested, either

The End.

 


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lisac957 - 2010-06-08 1:58 PM Oh my thread popped back up!

To update everyone... I left a case of beer on his porch with a hand-written thank you note on Friday (no one was home at the time). Saw him in the backyard later, asked if he got my gift. He said he was so touched that I would get him something... said even his friends had never been so thoughtful.

And neither of us got arrested, either

The End.

 

It's all because you got class Lisa... you're a real classy broad. 

2010-06-09 10:38 AM
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We all feel good.

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