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2010-11-01 8:06 PM

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Elite
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Subject: Facebook related question
I am curious why some people follow through with application requests when the obvious is stated before clicking allow?

Access my basic information
Includes name, profile picture, gender,
networks, user ID, list of friends, and any other
information I've shared with everyone.

Don't make much sense to me.  


2010-11-01 9:47 PM
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Subject: RE: Facebook related question
Nor me. We are becoming a transparent society.
2010-11-02 9:41 AM
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Subject: RE: Facebook related question
Cuz all that sheit is already sitting right there, anyway?
2010-11-02 9:44 AM
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I wonder this myself. I go to great lengths to protect my privacy on FB and wantonly clicking on those things so that I can send my friend a virtual birthday card or something silly confuzzles me.
2010-11-02 2:25 PM
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I wonder who would actually put their real information on there...
2010-11-02 2:40 PM
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Champion
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Subject: RE: Facebook related question
Lawyer up, hit the gym, delete your Facebook.


2010-11-02 2:42 PM
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Iron Donkey
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Stupidity?
2010-11-02 2:49 PM
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I have a FB stalker








































1stTimeTri - 2010-11-02 12:42 PM
2010-11-02 2:57 PM
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Iron Donkey
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Subject: RE: Facebook related question
Big Appa - 2010-11-02 2:49 PM I have a FB stalker








































1stTimeTri - 2010-11-02 12:42 PM


It's because you wear white pants, ya pimp.

Edited by 1stTimeTri 2010-11-02 2:58 PM
2010-11-02 3:03 PM
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Elite
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Subject: RE: Facebook related question
I applied every security setting I could manage, I don't use applications, and no one can even write on my wall...

but Friday night I logged on to find that a new co-worker added me as a friend. I thought I was unsearchable. Frown

I want to delete my FB account, but I used to live across the country and it's the only way that I have access to those friends. I guess I could go back to email...

I'm so frustrated about being found.
2010-11-02 3:11 PM
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mbasta - 2010-11-02 3:03 PM I applied every security setting I could manage, I don't use applications, and no one can even write on my wall...

but Friday night I logged on to find that a new co-worker added me as a friend. I thought I was unsearchable. Frown

I want to delete my FB account, but I used to live across the country and it's the only way that I have access to those friends. I guess I could go back to email...

I'm so frustrated about being found.


Everyone is searchable by their first and last name (provided they list their real names) and gender, as well as the profile photo you post. There is no way to hide that information. Facebook attempts to explain why they do this here. Allthough they don't really explain it, they just say they do it that way... because.

I know a few people who have listed fake first and/or last names so no one will find them. They only tell a select group of people their "facebook name" so they aren't bombarded with requests from people they don't want to be found by.

Edit: as for adding co-workers or not, I'd suggest ignoring the friend request and if asked, explain that you have a personal policy against friending co-workers (nothing personal). And then suggest that the two of you connect on a professional networking site like LinkedIn.

On a slight hijack, I found it hilarious when the status update started going around that "OMG OMG Facebook is PUBLISHING your CELL PHONE information! Click here and here and you can see ALL YOUR FRIENDS CELL PHONE NUMBERS!!!! SO WRONG!!" to which I just wanted to respond... "duh it's because each and every one of those people has their cell phone numbers listed on their profile. For pete's sake, Facebook merely aggregating the information YOU put out there.

Edited by lisac957 2010-11-02 3:13 PM


2010-11-02 3:16 PM
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Subject: RE: Facebook related question
lisac957 - 2010-11-02 3:11 PM 

Everyone is searchable by their first and last name (provided they list their real names) and gender,


That's my understanding as well, but I have a friend who gave me her exact name on there, and I can't find her for some reason either.  She tried changing her settings, but I've given up.  Maybe there's a Facebook Bermuda triangle. 
2010-11-02 3:21 PM
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Iron Donkey
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Subject: RE: Facebook related question
lisac957 - 2010-11-02 3:11 PM
mbasta - 2010-11-02 3:03 PM I applied every security setting I could manage, I don't use applications, and no one can even write on my wall...

but Friday night I logged on to find that a new co-worker added me as a friend. I thought I was unsearchable. Frown

I want to delete my FB account, but I used to live across the country and it's the only way that I have access to those friends. I guess I could go back to email...

I'm so frustrated about being found.


Everyone is searchable by their first and last name (provided they list their real names) and gender, as well as the profile photo you post. There is no way to hide that information. Facebook attempts to explain why they do this here. Allthough they don't really explain it, they just say they do it that way... because.

I know a few people who have listed fake first and/or last names so no one will find them. They only tell a select group of people their "facebook name" so they aren't bombarded with requests from people they don't want to be found by.

Edit: as for adding co-workers or not, I'd suggest ignoring the friend request and if asked, explain that you have a personal policy against friending co-workers (nothing personal). And then suggest that the two of you connect on a professional networking site like LinkedIn.

On a slight hijack, I found it hilarious when the status update started going around that "OMG OMG Facebook is PUBLISHING your CELL PHONE information! Click here and here and you can see ALL YOUR FRIENDS CELL PHONE NUMBERS!!!! SO WRONG!!" to which I just wanted to respond... "duh it's because each and every one of those people has their cell phone numbers listed on their profile. For pete's sake, Facebook merely aggregating the information YOU put out there.


*NOTE: Place Lisa's cell phone # on my FB page*

BIGGER NOTE:  I WOULD NEVER EVER EVER EVER DO THAT!
2010-11-02 3:31 PM
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lisac957 - 2010-11-02 4:11 PM

Everyone is searchable by their first and last name (provided they list their real names) and gender, as well as the profile photo you post.

I know a few people who have listed fake first and/or last names so no one will find them. They only tell a select group of people their "facebook name" so they aren't bombarded with requests from people they don't want to be found by.


Much like the phone book.  That even gives your address.  GASP!

People just need to think before they post info.  And manage your security setting correctly.  If managed correctly you can share all you want with people YOU want to and it will never go beyond that.

Also, not sure what the big deal about being "found" is all about.  If you get an invite from someone you do not know or do not want to share your info with then just ignore them.
2010-11-02 3:43 PM
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TriRSquared - 2010-11-02 3:31 PM
lisac957 - 2010-11-02 4:11 PM

Everyone is searchable by their first and last name (provided they list their real names) and gender, as well as the profile photo you post.

I know a few people who have listed fake first and/or last names so no one will find them. They only tell a select group of people their "facebook name" so they aren't bombarded with requests from people they don't want to be found by.


Much like the phone book.  That even gives your address.  GASP!



I am not listed in the phone book, never have been. Probably because I've never had a land line. It's like I don't exist! Except on Facebook. 
 
2010-11-02 3:56 PM
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lisac957 - 2010-11-02 4:43 PM
TriRSquared - 2010-11-02 3:31 PM
lisac957 - 2010-11-02 4:11 PM

Everyone is searchable by their first and last name (provided they list their real names) and gender, as well as the profile photo you post.

I know a few people who have listed fake first and/or last names so no one will find them. They only tell a select group of people their "facebook name" so they aren't bombarded with requests from people they don't want to be found by.


Much like the phone book.  That even gives your address.  GASP!



I am not listed in the phone book, never have been. Probably because I've never had a land line. It's like I don't exist! Except on Facebook. 
 


Regardless you get my point.  People get all in a tizzy about their "privacy" when they fail to realize their lives are a lot more public than they think. 


2010-11-02 8:06 PM
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2010-11-02 8:22 PM
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Subject: RE: Facebook related question
Just throwing out some info for consideration.

Personal Privacy means quite a few different things.  I recently ran a project for a large corporation based on a law which became enacted in the commonwealth of Massachusetts.  There are 27 other states considering similar legislation.  In this case, we had to strictly define what is personal privacy.  Using the verbiage in the written law (from MA) we defined it to be a person's first name and last name in conjunction with a bank account number, drivers license number or social security number.  The underlying basis for selecting this type of data is due to the ability of a person to use it for stealing a person's identity.

Most of what Facebook shares, is confidential information.  This is data which a person may wish or not wish to share with others but cannot lead to identity theft.  This data is defined as data which can be found through public record.  Name, address, phone numbers, etc is confidential but I can't do much with it.
2010-11-03 6:40 PM
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DerekL - 2010-11-02 4:16 PM
lisac957 - 2010-11-02 3:11 PM 

Everyone is searchable by their first and last name (provided they list their real names) and gender,


That's my understanding as well, but I have a friend who gave me her exact name on there, and I can't find her for some reason either.  She tried changing her settings, but I've given up.  Maybe there's a Facebook Bermuda triangle. 


I'm pretty sure I'm in the Facebook Bermuda triangle.  If you search for my first and last name, you'll only find me if we have mutual friends.  So there is a way to do it.

Being "found" is a big deal to me because I don't necessarily want my students seeing my profile pics.
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