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2012-05-29 4:38 PM

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Subject: Tips for dealing with letting staff go

We are downsizing staff at my workplace and I believe that my already very small staff might get hit. I am having a meeting with the Administration people tomorrow.  My concern right now is how do I act around the people who are getting let go, if it's someone on my staff?  How do you hide the guilt and disappointment until they are given the news?   I think I can deal with afterwards, but the in-between will be hard.

Any advice on good strategies for being reasonable and kind in this situation would be greatly appreciated.   We don't have a big HR juggernaut to handle these, it's a really small University everyone is pretty close. 



2012-05-29 4:43 PM
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I would tell them as soon as you find out, so they can make plans accordingly and you don't have to worry about how to act. Can you not tell them right away?
2012-05-29 4:45 PM
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lisac957 - 2012-05-29 2:43 PM I would tell them as soon as you find out, so they can make plans accordingly and you don't have to worry about how to act. Can you not tell them right away?

There are usually rules about that because of liability, worries over disgruntled employees doing something bad, that whole drill.  It sucks.

2012-05-29 4:47 PM
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lisac957 - 2012-05-29 2:43 PM I would tell them as soon as you find out, so they can make plans accordingly and you don't have to worry about how to act. Can you not tell them right away?

There are usually rules about that because of liability, worries over disgruntled employees doing something bad, that whole drill.  It sucks.

 

I will certainly tell them as soon as I am allowed, but I am not sure when that might be.  It maybe need to be coordinated with HR, etc.  Also, we have a lot of people on vacation right now so it may be tricky.

2012-05-29 5:03 PM
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Watch Moneyball. There's a line about just telling them quick and painful.
Brad Pitt- "would you rather take 2 to the head and die quickly or 1 to the gut and bleed out painfully?"
Jonah Hill- "I'd rather not get shot."

A good friend of mine had to lay off 13 people in 2 days. He had them come in and sit down and he said "the company has done away with your position, here is your package, I'll walk you to the door." no pauses. Just do it.

Sad for you and sad for them. It's all too common these days. By the way, you're not my boss are you???
2012-05-29 5:49 PM
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My company is in the process of identifying 8% of their workforce to let go.  A few methods like early retirement, not filling jobs, etc etc.  BUT, I am not talking to my manager for about a year...


2012-05-29 9:08 PM
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I'm still looking for ways to dealing with knowing who will go, timing, telling, etc.  A little bump for myself.

2012-05-29 9:09 PM
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bzgl40 - 2012-05-29 5:49 PM My company is in the process of identifying 8% of their workforce to let go.  A few methods like early retirement, not filling jobs, etc etc.  BUT, I am not talking to my manager for about a year...

We were there until recently.  Now they did the math and figured out how many had to be forceably sent off.  A smaller number than if we didn't have the retirements, etc, but some people nonetheless.

Oh, and how do I manage the workload once these folks are gone?  I'd be interested in that knowledge too.

2012-05-29 9:42 PM
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I've been in HR for almost 20yrs and I've let lots of people go. It sucks and it's horrible and the more you hate it, the better that probably reflects on you as a person. I've worked with a lot of people who only pretended not to like it. Here are a few hints:
There is no "better" time. People will say to do it on a Friday, or a Monday, or late in the day or whatever. Do it when it's easiest to do with a minimum of drama and as much compassion as possible.
Get to the point. Don't talk around it and get to the part where you tell them that they're fired in he first sentence.
Never, ever make it about you. Don't tell them how bad you feel or about the time that you were fired. They don't care and it won't make them feel better.
Don't follow them to their desk or walk them out unless you have a genuine reason to suspect they might be a security risk. It's humiliating and there's no reason for it.
Usually, when people sue for wrongful termination, they reference things that were said in the termination meeting, so the less you say, the better.

Good luck. Don't take it personally if they get angry or say mean things to you or leave in tears. You're a kind person and they'll eventually come to realize that.
2012-05-29 10:01 PM
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So this may sound harsh, and I really don't mean it to, but as the manager/supervisor you have a responsibility to both sides, one to the employee to let them know as soon as you can, but importantly, you have an obligation as the manager/supervisor to protect the company/University.

How to deal with your knowledge that someone has to be let go, and knowing who that is, accept it as part of your role and DO NOT treat them any differently, by all means take the frustration you will feel out in the gym/pool/bike. 

It sucks, it's probably the worst part of management, knowing you have to downsize a team, for whatever reason.  I have had to let people go, make the decision of who goes, and who gets to stay.  knowing that and not saying anything is indeed tough, but it's a part of your role, and it's part of why you were chosen to be at your level I would venture.

good luck! 

2012-05-29 10:04 PM
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jmk-brooklyn - 2012-05-29 10:42 PM I've been in HR for almost 20yrs and I've let lots of people go. It sucks and it's horrible and the more you hate it, the better that probably reflects on you as a person. I've worked with a lot of people who only pretended not to like it. Here are a few hints: There is no "better" time. People will say to do it on a Friday, or a Monday, or late in the day or whatever. Do it when it's easiest to do with a minimum of drama and as much compassion as possible. Get to the point. Don't talk around it and get to the part where you tell them that they're fired in he first sentence. Never, ever make it about you. Don't tell them how bad you feel or about the time that you were fired. They don't care and it won't make them feel better. Don't follow them to their desk or walk them out unless you have a genuine reason to suspect they might be a security risk. It's humiliating and there's no reason for it. Usually, when people sue for wrongful termination, they reference things that were said in the termination meeting, so the less you say, the better. Good luck. Don't take it personally if they get angry or say mean things to you or leave in tears. You're a kind person and they'll eventually come to realize that.

Really great advice.



2012-05-30 1:34 AM
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BikerGrrrl - 2012-05-28 10:09 PM

 

Oh, and how do I manage the workload once these folks are gone?  I'd be interested in that knowledge too.

 

Well, really poorly at first, but it gets better.   Our company went through a downsize at the end of 2008.   I was in the recovery room with my wife after the birth of my 3rd child, when my phone rang and it was one of my team members telling me that they just walked out one of our other team members.  (decision was made higher than me, and carried out without my knowledge)

As a company, we cut close to 8% of our workforce.  Everyone struggles for a while, and then you start to figure out ways to streamline your processes and work more efficiently.  

In our division, we returned to the same levels of production 18 months later, but with 900 fewer people.   Of course, we were much more profitable. 

So, yes, it sucks at first.  It does get better if you stay focused on the work. 

Hang in there.



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2012-05-30 7:04 AM
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Thanks everyone - I appreciate the advice. 
2012-05-30 8:37 AM
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jmk-brooklyn - 2012-05-29 10:42 PM I've been in HR for almost 20yrs and I've let lots of people go. It sucks and it's horrible and the more you hate it, the better that probably reflects on you as a person. I've worked with a lot of people who only pretended not to like it. Here are a few hints: There is no "better" time. People will say to do it on a Friday, or a Monday, or late in the day or whatever. Do it when it's easiest to do with a minimum of drama and as much compassion as possible. Get to the point. Don't talk around it and get to the part where you tell them that they're fired in he first sentence. Never, ever make it about you. Don't tell them how bad you feel or about the time that you were fired. They don't care and it won't make them feel better. Don't follow them to their desk or walk them out unless you have a genuine reason to suspect they might be a security risk. It's humiliating and there's no reason for it. Usually, when people sue for wrongful termination, they reference things that were said in the termination meeting, so the less you say, the better. Good luck. Don't take it personally if they get angry or say mean things to you or leave in tears. You're a kind person and they'll eventually come to realize that.

I've had to do this more than a few times.  Very good advice above. Have what you are going to say planned out before hand and don't waver.  Don't try to fill the awkward pauses with ad-lib talking.  Once you are done stand up and open the door.  They will more than likely get up and walk out.

It sucks, but it's business.

2012-05-30 10:18 AM
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Just catching up on CoJ.  Hope this is going OK for you today.

I've had to let several people go over the years and its never a good experience.  Even when people really deserve to be let go its still not enjoyable.

The others have given far better advise than I could, so I'll just say that I'm thinking about you today.

Good luck!!

2012-05-30 11:18 AM
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A quick update: went to meeting thinking I'd get the final decision - NOPE, just wanted to talk about choices.   I gave them information and asked them to not make me decide.  I won't hear for another 2 weeks.  Great.


2012-05-30 11:36 AM
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BikerGrrrl - 2012-05-30 11:18 AM A quick update: went to meeting thinking I'd get the final decision - NOPE, just wanted to talk about choices.   I gave them information and asked them to not make me decide.  I won't hear for another 2 weeks.  Great.

We went through cuts here a few years ago -- my husband was one who was let go.

At the time, we all knew something was going on -- it's impossible not to in a small place. Once people started to be called in for the "meeting," word went out quickly that it was actually happening.

With that in mind, I think the advice (if you really have to do it) you've been given is great. Be direct, kind, but clear.

If you aren't the one who has to do it, but do know who is going to be let go (as has been the case for me many times), you really can't tell them.

That being said, because the news that something  is happening is likely on the wind, you may be asked directly. I was. It's not appropriate, but in my experience, people will do it anyway because they are understandably stressed and wondering. Don't do what I did. I lied. I said, "I don't know." When in fact, I did know. After the person was fired, I went back to him and apologized for lying. He has still not forgiven me for lying. I shouldn't have lied. (And he ended up not being fired, so here we are. Four years later, still working together. Awkward.).

Faced with that situation again:

Person to be fired: "I have a meeting scheduled with the president tomorrow at 2:00 p.m. Am I going to be fired?"

My new, improved response: "I am not at liberty to give you that information." (Maybe not quite that robotic, but you get the idea.)

The above should be my response whether or not the person is going to be fired. Because that's the truth. I can't tell them.  Not just because it's not my job, but I'm not HR. There are procedures to follow, and I'm not in the procedural loop.

Sorry this got long.

2012-05-30 12:02 PM
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BikerGrrrl - 2012-05-30 12:18 PM

A quick update: went to meeting thinking I'd get the final decision - NOPE, just wanted to talk about choices.   I gave them information and asked them to not make me decide.  I won't hear for another 2 weeks.  Great.


Dragged out stinks, immediate stinks, it all stinks. I'm sorry you are going through this. The plus side, if there is one... If you don't already know what everyone does in your department, figure it out. This may sound silly, but all the way down to the smallest possible detail. Because in the next two weeks or so you will need to know not only the things they do, but how and why as well. I've been through 2 or 3 iterations of this same basic deal with a few departments and the same things always cropped up. Wasted time on processes, tasks that are not beneficial or necessary, and the other side, dropped balls that aren't found for a while. While you care for your people, 1 of your responsibilities is to the company. Be prepared.

Hope this helps.
2012-05-30 12:44 PM
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BikerGrrrl - 2012-05-30 11:18 AM

A quick update: went to meeting thinking I'd get the final decision - NOPE, just wanted to talk about choices.   I gave them information and asked them to not make me decide.  I won't hear for another 2 weeks.  Great.


Glad to hear that the hammer doesn’t have to fall right away, but, if I may:

You might want to re-think your decision to not participate in the decision-making process as to who stays and who goes. Admittedly, it’s a really tough place to be, but if you allow yourself to be part of the process, you can potentially steer the decisions towards outcomes that are not only best for the company, but might be in the best interests (relatively speaking) of the employees who are affected, since it’s likely that you know them better than upper management does.

In other words, maybe you have someone whom you know is unhappy in their job and who might take this and the severance package as a push towards doing something that suits him better. Better that person goes than someone who really loves what they do. Or maybe you know of an employee who relies on their spouse as the primary wage-earner in the family and would be in a better place financially if they were to lose their job than another one of your people who is the sole breadwinner at home.

Not only that, you want to make sure that your top performers are protected. If you are going to end up with a reduced workforce, you want to make sure that you’re surrounded by your best people to help you shoulder the additional load. Hopefully, the top brass know who those people are, but you might have a better sense of the needs of the business than they do. If there’s only one person who performs a critical function, you don’t want that person going out the door if you can help it.

Just a thought…
2012-05-30 12:47 PM
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Make sure none of your direct reports reads the COJ....
2012-05-30 2:15 PM
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jmk-brooklyn - 2012-05-30 1:44 PM
BikerGrrrl - 2012-05-30 11:18 AM A quick update: went to meeting thinking I'd get the final decision - NOPE, just wanted to talk about choices.   I gave them information and asked them to not make me decide.  I won't hear for another 2 weeks.  Great.
Glad to hear that the hammer doesn’t have to fall right away, but, if I may: You might want to re-think your decision to not participate in the decision-making process as to who stays and who goes. Admittedly, it’s a really tough place to be, but if you allow yourself to be part of the process, you can potentially steer the decisions towards outcomes that are not only best for the company, but might be in the best interests (relatively speaking) of the employees who are affected, since it’s likely that you know them better than upper management does. In other words, maybe you have someone whom you know is unhappy in their job and who might take this and the severance package as a push towards doing something that suits him better. Better that person goes than someone who really loves what they do. Or maybe you know of an employee who relies on their spouse as the primary wage-earner in the family and would be in a better place financially if they were to lose their job than another one of your people who is the sole breadwinner at home. Not only that, you want to make sure that your top performers are protected. If you are going to end up with a reduced workforce, you want to make sure that you’re surrounded by your best people to help you shoulder the additional load. Hopefully, the top brass know who those people are, but you might have a better sense of the needs of the business than they do. If there’s only one person who performs a critical function, you don’t want that person going out the door if you can help it. Just a thought…

What he said. You'll be left with the workload after people are gone so do whatever you can to keep the people that will help most in the aftermath.



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jmk-brooklyn - 2012-05-30 12:44 PM
BikerGrrrl - 2012-05-30 11:18 AM A quick update: went to meeting thinking I'd get the final decision - NOPE, just wanted to talk about choices.   I gave them information and asked them to not make me decide.  I won't hear for another 2 weeks.  Great.
Glad to hear that the hammer doesn’t have to fall right away, but, if I may: You might want to re-think your decision to not participate in the decision-making process as to who stays and who goes. Admittedly, it’s a really tough place to be, but if you allow yourself to be part of the process, you can potentially steer the decisions towards outcomes that are not only best for the company, but might be in the best interests (relatively speaking) of the employees who are affected, since it’s likely that you know them better than upper management does. In other words, maybe you have someone whom you know is unhappy in their job and who might take this and the severance package as a push towards doing something that suits him better. Better that person goes than someone who really loves what they do. Or maybe you know of an employee who relies on their spouse as the primary wage-earner in the family and would be in a better place financially if they were to lose their job than another one of your people who is the sole breadwinner at home. Not only that, you want to make sure that your top performers are protected. If you are going to end up with a reduced workforce, you want to make sure that you’re surrounded by your best people to help you shoulder the additional load. Hopefully, the top brass know who those people are, but you might have a better sense of the needs of the business than they do. If there’s only one person who performs a critical function, you don’t want that person going out the door if you can help it. Just a thought…

I completely understand what you're saying.   I was clear that one person shouldn't go (and they agreed), but I am on the fence about the other two. I simply couldn't decide, the lists of plusses and minuses are so equal.   I WISH I could pinpoint the better solution.

2012-05-30 5:09 PM
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This is where working in non-charter public education and dealing with teacher unions makes everything extremely easy.

In CA, you only really need to know 2 things.

 

Rule 1 - You cannot fire any tenured teacher unless they get convicted of a felony. This is important, we had to pay a rapist back-pay from the time of arrest to conviction because we fired before the conviction.

Rule 2 - If you do lay-offs, it is based on hire date. No critical thought about quality or effectiveness allowed.

 

The only down-side is thinking about what this system does to kids.

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