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2009-09-09 8:51 AM

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Subject: Jake the Wonder Dawg, my running partner, is dying

For those of you who run with dogs, I thought I'd share this from my blog.....

Jake would not take his pills this morning. He usually chews them up and likes them….but he would not chew….would not swallow….just looked at me with big, sad eyes. I let him spit them out. He had been laying here beside me by the computer and then got up and walked to the utility room. I thought he wanted to go outside so I opened the door…but he just stood there. He is obviously uncomfortable but just doesn't know what to do. I left the door open and went to get his pills. He came back into the LR so that is when I tried to give him his meds. After he spit them out he went into the kitchen. He is so weak/tired he can barely walk. Every breath is labored. I sat back at the computer and heard what sounded like him falling….or collapsing. I went into the kitchen and he was laying down. I laid with him on the kitchen floor and petted his head for a long time and just cried. He has been such a good dog. I love him so much. It just breaks my heart to see him like this.

I remember when we got Jake about 8 years ago and he was just a little puppy….big ole feet that were too big for his body….we knew he'd be a big boy. He went through that puppy stage chewing up everything…including the seat on our John Deere lawn tractor. He used to chase the horses around the pasture like he was herding them up or something. It wasn't long before he got too close and one of the horses kicked him and knocked out one of his molars. That didn't stop him from herding horses.

We always said Jake was the "head of ranch security" and he kept an eye on the place. We could always tell by the sound of his bark if he was just playing with Joanie or the horses of if he was sounding and alarm that thee were intruders on or near the estate ground. He could tell from the sound of a car's engine if it belonged here and never barked at the sounds of any of our cars. Once I came home in a rental car and he came running and barking till he saw me get out.

I'm not sure when it was that I started running with Jake but those runs are my favorite memories of Jake. He loved to run! He would see me putting on my running shoes and just dance around so excited he didn't know what to do. When I was training for marathons I'd often go as long as 18 miles. If it wasn't too hot, Jake could easily run 13 miles or so but when it was hot, I'd arrange for Casey to come pick him up at about 9 or 10 miles. Casey would park a few hundred yards ahead of us and get out of the car. Jake's ears would perk up as we looked ahead at this stopped car. And then he's see Casey! I'd drop the leash and he would sprint ahead to meet Casey. I remember one run where Jake kept stopping and walking and we were only about 4 miles out. Finally he went to the bathroom and I noticed a big ball of tinfoil in his stool. The previous day there had been a land auction near our property and they had free hamburger. Evidently Jake had stolen a hamburger and ate the thing - tinfoil and all!

Jake was the perfect running companion and coach. He would usually try to start out too fast but I'd tug a little on his leash and say "Slow down a little Jake!" and he'd slow his pace. Most of the time we ran in silence but I would occasionally asked him "How ya doin' buddy?" and Jake would look up at me and seem to say "Feelin' good! How you doing?" I could always tell when Jake was getting tired. Most of the time he'd run out in front of me just a little. As he got tired, he drift back to run beside me and when he'd get really tired, he run slightly behind. When he got really tired or had to pee, he'd stop and we'd walk. If I needed a walk break, he'd walk with me and would keep looking back/up at me as if to say "C'mon, let's go!!" He was my coach and challenged me.

We went hiking a couple of times to the Walls of Jericho. Jake and Joanie had a wonderful time running and exploring. The Walls is way down in the bottom of a deep ravine. Coming back up out of the ravine Jake worked like a sled dog pulling us up the trail. He was so strong and powerful with big muscles on his chest and shoulders!

Jake loved the pool and, up until this season, thought his job was the official "pool greeter". If someone went off the diving board or off the deep end, Jake would run around to the shallow end, jump in the water and swim out to meet them. He loved the water and would follow me around in the pool. He taught himself how to use the ladder to get out of the pool in the deep end. Pretty neat trick for a dog to climb a ladder. When it was hot outside, Jake's favorite place to relax as on the first step in the shallow end of the pool.

Jake went out every morning with Casey to feed the horses. Casey always took the dogs with her when she rode horses around here. Jake was a scout and loved to run ahead and check things out.

I've had at least one dog almost all my life and have good memories of each one. But Jake is one of those once-in-a-lifetime dogs. He is so special to me. We have a bond forged with literally hundred of miles of running together. As I looked over the numerous pictures we have of Jake I see how young the kids were when we first got Jake and realize that Jake grew up with the kids. He is truly part of our family. I know that may sound strange or cliché to non-dog lovers but dog lovers know what it means to give y our heart to a dog. I gave my heart to Jake…and he gave me his.

~Mike



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2009-09-09 9:00 AM
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He looks and sounds like a great dog.  I'm sorry he is going through this.
2009-09-09 9:06 AM
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I totally get it. I had my dog (child) for 16.5 years and lost him last October. It seems like it was yesterday.  I am sorry that you are both going through this. I know how hard it is.
2009-09-09 9:08 AM
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Oh, I'm so sorry, Mike. Jake sounds like a great dog (and adorable too!). He was obviously very-well loved.

2009-09-09 9:12 AM
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I hear you man.. I am a dog lover as well.. I have a 10 year old mastiff. Not a running partner but a great dog.  I kiss her everyday....  A good friend once told me..

Your dog has been good to you now its time for you to be good to him....
2009-09-09 9:14 AM
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Sorry to hear about him.  He sounds like a great member of the family.

 

I'll be thinking of both of you.



2009-09-09 9:16 AM
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Oh I am so very very sorry to hear.............its so hard to say good bye to such a dear friend. We lost our beloved yellow lab after 16 wonderful years. Two years later I still miss her. 
2009-09-09 9:18 AM
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Wow that stinks, makes me worry about my dog, Pepper (a lab dalmation mix).  I have the same good times running with him as you do with Jake.   I'm not sure what I'd do without him and I know you're going through alot of pain.
2009-09-09 9:28 AM
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I'm sorry.  I had to quit reading this, I am at work and crying.  I just want to let you know you will be in my thoughts today. 
2009-09-09 9:28 AM
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Mike,

I am SOOO sorry man.  I know exactly what you are going through.  It's so tough and believe me, as I sit here with tears in my eyes, it's a hard thing to go through.  But just know that Jake knows you are there for him. 

I slept with Boo on her 'last' night on the floor and then she gave me that look when she went to the vet.  It was the last time and I know that Boo will be there waiting for Jake to go for a long run and coach her on not going out too fast.

Remember all the times you had and smile about them.
2009-09-09 9:58 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear about Jake, I lost a "once in a lifetime dog" 2 years ago and I still really miss her. I completely agree that they are part of the family and it sounds like you gave him a great life.


2009-09-09 10:00 AM
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Mike, my heart goes out to you, more than you know.

I just went through this exact same thing with my beloved "once-in-a-lifetime" lab, Scooby. And I do mean EXACT. He too was only eight years old and taken way before his time by cancer two weeks ago. For me, it was devastating.

I felt all the same things you're feeling, and I know there is nothing I can share with you that will make the pain any easier. Even now, two weeks after Scooby's passing I still go through all the same old routines, listening for his excited bark when I come home, waiting for him to jump up on the bed at night, even getting ready to go to the doggy park on Saturdays and Sundays. I miss him more every day.

I know it will get easier in time for me, just as it will for you. Just treasure every last moment you have with Jake and know that you gave him everything a dog could want in life-- a happy home and a loving master.

Mike, you and Jake will be in my prayers, right along with Scooby.




2009-09-09 10:01 AM
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Mike, I'm so sorry.  Jake sounds like a great companion. 
2009-09-09 10:07 AM
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Sorry you have to go through this. It's only dog lovers who can really understand the pain you are going through. People think I'm weird when I called my mini dachshund my kid. He is still young and the thought of losing him is something I could not imagine. Keep your head up and remember the good times.
2009-09-09 10:07 AM
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I'M SORRY MIKE.I'm a dog lover and always have been, so I know what it means to give my heart to a dog. Unfortunately for me, I was told to quit running with my dog just a few a couple of years ago, and that was the hardest thing! So many miles, and now we had to stop. We're allowed to walk, but absolutely no running!From your logs, Jake really shows up and means a whole lot to you and I'm sorry you're dealing with this. Just know that you and your family loved him and gave him all that you could!Be strong.
2009-09-09 10:14 AM
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Sorry to here about Jake, heart-wrenching story. 

I'll never forget the day 5 years ago when my wife called me home because our dog Nikki (12) was really laboring and I took her to the vet, sitting in that room with her knowing it was time.  I picked her out of the litter when she was 6 weeks old and brought her home at 12 weeks.  We are currently prepping for the time with our dog Simon, he's 11 and declining fast.


2009-09-09 10:16 AM
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What a beautiful tribute. I have tears in my eyes as I sit here with my "once in a lifetime" dog at my feet. Sophie and I have always been partial to dogs named Jake, they seem to have a certain something. My thoughts are with you and your family.
2009-09-09 10:29 AM
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Lost my buddy/beagle three years ago.  We went through so much that it is hard to think about him without tears.  I feel for you and hope that if his end is near it is without too much pain.  Take care Jake!
2009-09-09 10:30 AM
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My heart goes out to you.  Losing a dog IS losing a member of your family, especially the one that your children grew up with.  It took me an entire day of laying on the kitchen floor snuggled up to my special guy before I found the courage to say good-bye.  It's been seven years and I still miss him every day.
2009-09-09 10:36 AM
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I lost my best friend last year.
He was a rescue from an abusive home and it took him a while to trust me, but I brought him around.
I still miss him terribly
I feel for both of you
2009-09-09 10:39 AM
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What a good dog.



2009-09-09 10:42 AM
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Oh!  He looks exactly like one of the goldens I used to have!  My heart dropped when I saw those pictures!

I'm sorry to hear Mike.  Dogs like that are irreplaceable in my opinion. 

I swear, if I didn't know better, I could mistake that picture for my old buddy Finlay...

2009-09-09 10:50 AM
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I am terribly sorry about Jake.  Sounds like he brought out the best in you.

 

I've been weepy all day ( now I am bawling ) as it is 2 yrs ago today that I lost my extra special dog. I'll never forget the great times we had. < sniff >

 

2009-09-09 11:49 AM
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I think I have to call the Techie, stupid computer screen is getting all blurry.
My thoughts are with all of you
2009-09-09 11:58 AM
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Your dog is like another child.  But there is a huge difference.

You love your children, but sometimes they get pizzed off at you and upset and argue and feelings get all mixed.

Your dog NEVER does that and only has unconditional love for you.  That's the difference.

Sorry to hear about this Mike.  Even the best ones have to go on when it is their time.

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