Are you GAY?? (Page 3)

I'm straight. Really, really straight!

Because, apart from the whole sex part, being gay means hanging out with your buddy all the time.  And frankly, if we legalize gay marriage, the sex part will go away.  At least, that seems to be what happens when straight couples marry...

Ahhh
Give a gay guy wedding cake and...uh...Blow cough coughs go away too?
 Do they get wrinkles around the eyes too from saying "puhleeeeez"

That was my point.  Thank you for making it better than I did.

Edited by TriRSquared 2010-06-15 9:17 PM

What the heck, what is with everyone's obsession with sexual orientation today?

So I'm at work tonight, and I'm helping a male and female customer (obviously a couple). So I'm chatting with both of them, working on getting them a product. Those who have met me on this board know that I have a somewhat strange accent, a mixture of Scottish/N. Irish and a healthy dose of Pittsburgher. So the female of this couple is from a foreign country. She and I are chatting about Scotland and what have you, and then just BAM! out of now where,

"So, are you straight?".

Um...i'm sorry?
She couldn't have just asked that, right? She must be asking if I'm straight Scottish...so I answer the question in that mode.

"Oh no, I was asking if you are straight, sexually"

Uhhhhh...yes. I'm married.

"Oh, I just thought because of the hair that you would be not straight. I know that that's not something you ask people, but I wanted to know."

*le sigh*
If that's not something you ask people, THEN DON'T ASK IT.

Not that I was offended that they thought I was a lesbian, but to be honest, I didn't (and wouldn't) open that door to a customer because it isn't appropriate. It's just not something that you straight up and ask people, because it's just none of their dammed business. Seriously. If I had asked the same thing of a customer, my butt would be fired. Period.

*grumble*
Long night

not gay, but a proud fag-hag.  is that an offensive term here?

Straight, but not narrow (-minded, that is).

a straight girl that has close gay male friends.

The hags I hang with don't like it.  And the are really, really hags

Here!  Present!  I am gay.  Married to a man!  After leaving the Navy, I swore I would never hide who I was again, and I haven't, but I am also not a big political in your face kinda guy.  

Count me in. I fall into the L category in the LGBT alphabet soup.

I appreciate this attitude much more than the look at me I am sooo vegan, look at me I am soo conservative, look at me I a such a stud triathlete or the look at me I am soo gay attitude.

Be proud of who and what you are but be careful it can quickly become obnoxious.

So not that anyone needs my approval but... good for you Runningwoof.

Oh...I also look at the pics of the hotties in the men of BT 2010 thread.  Sometimes even comment, but usually not, just so I don't offend anyone.  

eff that!  you can compliment me all you want!  What kind of fool doesn't want a compliment no matter WHO it comes from?...

If a gay guy said I was hot, I would be like all day "yeah!  I'm hot!"....

I have gay male friends and lesbian women friends. I have had gay/lesbian friends and hung out in their "scene" for 20 years.

I can most certainly tell you they DO NOT like bisexuals. Only bisexuals like bisexuals. Ha. But gay/lesbian say the bi's need to make a choice. They can't have their cake and eat it too.

Apparently they can eat their cake and their pie

Absolutely agree^^^
feel free to comment all you want as far as I care, in fact, I have received a few comments from gay friends about some of the clothes I wear being good enough for a gay guy to be seen in, works for me :-)  gay guys know style....hows that for a stereotype :-)

This is not true all over, and I think this feeling is changing in most communities.  I have several bi sexual friends.  Most gay people I know now, have bi-sexual friends.  Our community center in San Jose is also very Bi friendly.  I think the more we learn and talk about sexuality, the more we open up to just accepting everyone.  I am sure there are still people out there who feel that bisexuals need to make a choice, but to an extent, we are all bisexual.  There are women that I see that I find very attractive sexually...it is rare, but it happens.  I think there are plenty of straight guys who meet someone with that certain "something" and whether they admit it or not, they find that person attractive.  I believe that is human nature.  

My problem is that I am attracted to straight guys.  

I have a question for any straight guys reading the thread.  When running, if you saw another guy checking you out, would you be offended or flattered.  I find myself looking at the eye candy that run on the trail here.  I don't run with my glasses on, so sometimes I look more than I should. 

Not offended at all (not that it has happened to my knowledge whilst out running), but if i thought I was being checked out, yah, so?  ego boost all the same :-) 

I would bet that most men would have no clue when they are being checked out.
When running I would not be able to tell because I can barely focus on the whole left foot right foot thing.

I personally don't care who checks me out, male or female but I don't like being casually touched by anyone male or female.

Look but don't touch. I had a straight male boss that would always feel my triceps. nope. I have had numerous hot female coworkers be flirty and touch me too. nope. If you are not my wife (or girlfriend before I was married) or family back of a step or two. I have a large area of personal space that you should probably stay out of.

Wait.  They get cake?