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2007-12-03 7:48 PM

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Subject: BT may really have saved my life....

Okay, okay.  Bear with me on this one.  But BT may have just saved my life.

So, many of you might remember the BIKINI WAX thread from several months back.  If you don't, it's a good read.

Because of that thread, I decided to bite the bullet and go GET WAXED.

Well, during the wax session the wax chick says to me, "Hey, did you know you have a mole down here."

I had no idea.  I'd never seen it before.  But I had been meaning to get some moles removed anyway (you know, all the ones that get hit by the sun during triathlons) so off I go to the dermatologist. 

Nine of my biopsies came out fine.  The ONE that didn't was THE mole discovered by the wax chick.  It came out "one step away from skin cancer".  They had some fancy medical term for it, but basically, any worse and it would be malignant skin cancer.

So, were it not for the urging of several ladies here on BT (you had to be in chat those nights) I never would have gone for the waxing and might not have caught the mole before it got super bad.  Hence, BT has saved my life.

Um, the crappy part of all this is that they need to re-excise that spot and take out a huge chunk.  Um, owie.  Very owie.  That one is going to hurt.

What possessed me to post about this?  Regimom made me do it.  Hey, last time I followed her advice (re: waxing) it worked out for me.  So, I went with her on this one.  



2007-12-03 7:50 PM
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What does one say to that?? Congrats, good news, yippy, whew??
2007-12-03 7:52 PM
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Congrats on catching it early.

This proves the point that shaving does not equal waxing.  There simply needs to be someone ELSE to look at the area.

2007-12-03 7:54 PM
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CubeFarmGopher - 2007-12-03 8:52 PM

Congrats on catching it early.

This proves the point that shaving does not equal waxing.  There simply needs to be someone ELSE to look at the area.

Great point, please post picsInnocent

2007-12-03 7:56 PM
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Wow. Great story.  I'm making my wax appointment now!
2007-12-03 7:58 PM
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Shermbelle - 2007-12-03 6:54 PM
CubeFarmGopher - 2007-12-03 8:52 PM

Congrats on catching it early.

This proves the point that shaving does not equal waxing. There simply needs to be someone ELSE to look at the area.

Great point, please post picsInnocent

I was tempted to bet how long it would take for the subject of posting pictures to come up.

But honestly...it wasn't a matter of someone else looking...you really just NEVER would have seen it with hair there.... 



2007-12-03 8:22 PM
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What kind of tanning were you doing anyway?

Glad that Linda made you do it!! I'll make sure she gets spanked by someone local for bringing it up though...
2007-12-03 8:25 PM
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Z-dog - 2007-12-03 8:22 PM What kind of tanning were you doing anyway? Glad that Linda made you do it!! I'll make sure she gets spanked by someone local for bringing it up though...

 

worst skin lesions I have seen are where the sun DON'T shine.....that is often where we find melanoma. 

2007-12-03 8:54 PM
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turtlegirl - 2007-12-03 8:56 PM Wow. Great story. I'm making my wax appointment now!

 don't worry about an appointment

2007-12-03 9:03 PM
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Wow, Jen! You should take that wax lady out for lunch or something!

Seriously, glad you are OK. I wish there was a good wax place in central PA, but I don't think people are into that here...

2007-12-03 9:10 PM
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Glad the waxing saved your life!  Now all the other BT ladies, go get waxed!


2007-12-03 9:15 PM
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YAY JEN!!!!!  First of all... congrats on being brave enough for the hot wax... and second...  I'm so glad you did!  Can you IMAGINE??????????????????? I have learned many many many many things in BT chat, but I have yet to experience a life saving chat. 

You rock for posting this. 

confession: I went back to shaving... shhhhhh.  I don't know why, really, but maybe I'll switch again.  I'm fickle like that.

2007-12-03 9:20 PM
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GatorGirl22 - 2007-12-03 10:03 PM

Wow, Jen! You should take that wax lady out for lunch or something!

Seriously, glad you are OK. I wish there was a good wax place in central PA, but I don't think people are into that here...

You're in Hershey.  You should certainly be able to get a chocolate wax.

2007-12-03 9:32 PM
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drchaya - 2007-12-03 7:25 PM

Z-dog - 2007-12-03 8:22 PM What kind of tanning were you doing anyway? Glad that Linda made you do it!! I'll make sure she gets spanked by someone local for bringing it up though...

 

worst skin lesions I have seen are where the sun DON'T shine.....that is often where we find melanoma.

You know, my first reaction when they told me the biopsy results was, "But, that is the ONE mole that hasn't seen the light of day!  I thought sun was what made moles go bad."

I mean, really.  I NEVER would have thought that mole would have been the problem child.  I suspected the other nine I had removed and none of them were a problem.  In fact, if I hadn't just been plain freaked about the location of said mole, I probably wouldn't have had it checked out.  And what's worse...is that the dermatology place wouldn't have known about it if I hadn't told them.  I knew I wanted several removed so I made an appointment for a "full body check".  She started in my scalp and looked all over but they'd told me I could keep my panties on.  Then she never looked under them.  She said she was done and I had to say, "but I have another one."  So, really.  How many moles do these people MISS?  I mean, she checked my scalp.  Wouldn't it make sense to check OTHER places I might have hair?  Since obviously I had never SEEN this one because it was covered by hair.  Which is EXACTLY why they bother to check your scalp.  Anyway.  I just hijacked my own thread I think.

So, what DOES cause moles to go bad if not the sun? 

2007-12-03 9:53 PM
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jldicarlo - 2007-12-03 9:32 PM

So, what DOES cause moles to go bad if not the sun?

 

Still the sun, and environmental hits, but the cumulative damage can cause problems everywhere.  Basically the sun is one source of oxidative stress which makes free radicals which damage DNA.  Your body has just so many ways of repairing DNA  - thus we rely on consuming ANTI-oxidants to help lower the burden -  and the more we can reduce the exposure to burdens the better.  Sun avoidance, sunscreen.....

 

as to the skimping on exam, this is the advantage of Family Medicine - we do the gyn exam AND the skin exam....and we are not shy about panties being on..... I have some patients come for annual (pap etc), skin check and laser in one appointment ;-) such a time saver (lmao).

 

and for the boys - it is the bikers and swimmers who mostly want to be defuzzed.... 

2007-12-03 10:07 PM
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Still the sun, and environmental hits, but the cumulative damage can cause problems everywhere. Basically the sun is one source of oxidative stress which makes free radicals which damage DNA. Your body has just so many ways of repairing DNA - thus we rely on consuming ANTI-oxidants to help lower the burden - and the more we can reduce the exposure to burdens the better. Sun avoidance, sunscreen.....

So are you saying the suburns I have effect non-sunburned places? 

as to the skimping on exam, this is the advantage of Family Medicine - we do the gyn exam AND the skin exam....and we are not shy about panties being on..... I have some patients come for annual (pap etc), skin check and laser in one appointment ;-) such a time saver (lmao).

One stop shopping...nice.   I'm not shy either.  I mean, this mole was discovered during waxing.   They pretty much told me to leave them on.  Which is fine while you're doing all the rest of the exam.  But IMHO they should have then told me to take them off so they really could have done an exam.  I know SO many women are all private and stuff and would rather DIE than take off their underwear, but seriously.  It's a doctor's office.  The thing that took me most by surprise was after my knee surgery when they gave me my clothes to get changed back into and they pulled the curtain shut but a nurse stayed behind to help (since I was a gimp).  I pretty much stripped off the hospital gown right away and the nurse picked it up and held it in front of me.  I was kinda like, "WTF?"  Are people THAT picky?  Anyway, I guess privacy is important, but I don't think they should sacrifice the health care for it.

 

and for the boys - it is the bikers and swimmers who mostly want to be defuzzed....

Amen. 



2007-12-04 5:42 AM
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So, it's win-win!

 

Glad you got it early.

2007-12-04 8:16 AM
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Interesting.  Glad you got it early.  My family has a history, yet I'm reluctant to get checked.  I suppose I may now.

 

 

2007-12-04 8:29 AM
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Jen, so happy that this was caught!

Also, you've reminded me to go make another wax appointment

2007-12-04 8:29 AM
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Another reason to be glad my sweetheart is a physician's assistant...
2007-12-04 9:47 AM
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Chippy - 2007-12-04 7:29 AM

Jen, so happy that this was caught!

Also, you've reminded me to go make another wax appointment

Thankyou, and you're welcome.



2007-12-04 9:56 AM
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You mentioned getting a large chunk excised from an owie area. Can they possibly to a Mohs  procedure on you. I had one taken off my chest using Mohs and even though I have a 2 inch scar, the alternative was going to be a much larger chunk removed. It might be worth your while to look into it and discuss it with your doc.
2007-12-04 10:49 AM
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I had a malignant melanoma in situ (first stage, excise 2 inches around it and you're cured!) on my belly, a place where the sun shines only rarely.  Ever since then regular mole checks - and let me tell you, my dermatologist in Houston was THOROUGH!  First appointment here in Philly isn't until February, but if they aren't looking everywhere then they aren't doing their job.

Don't forget between the toes too.  And if you can train your hairdresser to check your scalp, that's good too.  I keep forgetting, but maybe the next time I go to my new one.

2007-12-04 11:16 AM
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I had a malignant melanoma in situ (first stage, excise 2 inches around it and you're cured!) on my belly,

Um, wow.  I am SO glad I caught this before the malignant stage because I could NOT imagine getting two inches excised in that area.  OUCHIE!

Going to see the plastics guy for a consult today.  The sucky part?  I still have stitches and thus couldn't get waxed so...it's not pretty.   I know he's a doc, but I'm a CHICK!   Get waxed Saturday though so hopefully he can squeeze in the excise soon after that.

Oh, and the PA that did the full body exam DID check between my toes.  Again, she was so thorough everywhere else, it surprised me.

2007-12-04 11:17 AM
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mdg2003 - 2007-12-04 8:56 AM You mentioned getting a large chunk excised from an owie area. Can they possibly to a Mohs  procedure on you. I had one taken off my chest using Mohs and even though I have a 2 inch scar, the alternative was going to be a much larger chunk removed. It might be worth your while to look into it and discuss it with your doc.

Consult today.  I will get back to you on what the plastics guy says.

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