Subject: RE: Do you know your Myers-Briggs type?I used to be ESTJ when I was young and bossy, but I mellowed with age into an ENTJ. I just wish I could be a little less "J". My husband is an INFP (who took 19 years to finish his master's degree ) and we'll be walking down the street and see a house with flaking paint and we might both speak at the same time. I'll say, "They need to paint their house." He'll say, "Those paint chips look like flower petals, aren't they pretty?" I've got an opinion on everything and the E makes me say it out loud. My saving grace is that I don't actually expect anything to DO anything with my opinion, but they don't always understand that and feel "judged" by my judgments. Fancy that. Big sigh. I've learned there's one type that I need to avoid - they make me nervous always throwing fits about some offense I've inadvertantly caused them. Sadly, I never remember which type that is. Maybe ISFP. They drive me crazy harboring their imagined grudges, projecting dastardly motives onto me. They just don't get that I'm an oblivious puppy just romping over their feelings blithely with no harm intended. Gwendal |