Things i DONT miss about relationships (for Lee &others) (Page 2)

Wow I wasn't going to reply to this thread but it seems catharic. So here goes:

• After a four year monogomous relationship deciding to "just stop calling," because, "I can't deal with it." It, being me asking when you were going to get a job and leave your mother's house.
• Saying to me, "I don't think I'm good enough for you." I hate that.
• Lying to me
• Not calling me back when I call you. It's a simple phone call not a marriage proposal.
• Calling me a sheep because I believe in God.
• Not believing in anything.
• Never calling me back and then getting angry when he calls and I'm not there.
• Showing up on my doorstep from Oklahoma unannounced. (Stalker, long scary story)
• Calling me at work and then screaming at me when I tell him I have to go.
• Sleeping around on me.
• Saying he'll take me to dinner for - FIVE YEARS - but never doing it. Why call me? Duh?
• Calling me after 10 p.m.
• Sleeping around on me (hate that one)
• Having to say no to sex all the time cause hey I think it really should be shared with someone special preferably someone I'm married to.
• Feeling helpless because I can't communicate how miserable I feel because I'm so afraid that no man will like me. (Ooops that is going into issue territory)
• Silence - I'd rather you send me a Dear John letter than not talk at all.
• Not feeling safe.
• Lack of commuication.
• Having to avert aggressive sexual advances. All the time. It's disgusting. I hate it but I feel helpless.
• Him being constantly depressed - I don't understand depression.
• Lack of action.
• Lack of strength (not to be confused with showing weakness).
• Lack of direction.
• Lack of conviction.
• Being in love but not really liking them.

I just though of another one-

Someone who thinks they try and change you!

Wow- sounds like you had it pretty bad.  Where do you find a girl like that?  I love this thread!  It makes me realize how normal and low maintenance I am!  And btw- it sucks she wasn't nice enough to your dogs.  If I were her, I would be buying them gourmet doggie treats at the doggie boutique all the time!  That's what I do for my parents' dog back home when I visit

Wow I love this thread!!

How about being in trouble for NOT thinking that he was sleeping with his friends who are girls.  I'm still trying to understand how we got into an argument because I wasn't jealous!

ohh there are soo many things I don't miss I could go on for days. I think most of my things have all been said before. .

I am inclined to agree here. Not having to talk to one person everyday

It's so funny how the littlest things annoy us. Being single, if someone annoys me, I leave the situation. If you are with that someone it's not so simple.

My list:

1. Missing out on fun things, b/c SO would not want to do it.     2. Sharing control of the radio. (I have a bad habit of not being able to finish a song all the way through, ever, this drives most people crazy)     3. Don't miss people classifying us as one, we are two people, treat us as such.    

I'm sure I have more, just can't think about it right now, the other post is still on my mind, gotta go make my list there. what I do miss.....

I'm so sorry. That is terrible. However, I think having a dad in his life that is happy and wants to spend time with him is more important that having an unhappy dad at home with a destructive mom. Hope you figure something out.

Ok this thread has made me realize two things:

1- I don't bring my wife flowers often enough. She was a real catch and she's getting flowers  tonight to remind her of that.

2- I was a real catch too!

AWWWwwww....so sweet!

NOW GET OFF THIS THREAD! You see the title!

LOL!

Funny bump there.

How is it possible you were involved with my (( soon to be ex )) husband?

I'm in the process of getting divorced.

I'm living with a friend from work, in her crowded house, with her, her brother, her father and her daughter. She does not have an extra bedroom, so we are SHARING her king sized bed. (no, no, nothing else is going on...)

I'd rather live my own life out of laundry baskets and suitcases, and share a bed with a girl from work named Suzanne, than live with my husband in our home.

I don't miss him at all... I specifically don't miss:

• His temper
• His utter lack of respect for me
• His constant yelling and swearing
• His mood swings
• His OCD
• His control issues
• His money issues
• His issues surrounding his father and his family
• His insistence on controlling everything from the checkbook to the TV.
• His spartan house and neat freak habits.

Oh, I could go on and on. But I won't....you get the idea. I'm lighter and happier and healthier now than I've been in a long time. I just lost 198 lbs and I don't ever intend to gain it back.

What were his upsides, btw sorry you are going through this.

Holy Cats, Whizz!  Was that a typo?  198 lbs.?  WOW WOW WOW!

I give you a lot of credit for putting yourself through what you need to do to be happy.  In the long run it will be very worth it (sounds like it already is in many ways). 

<<<btw, please don't kick me off the thread but like marmadaddy's earlier post it's flowers for Mrs. Hangloose tonight too (ok, not that he's getting her flowers too, but oh crap never mind.>>>